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I want to cane someone in a very severe and harsh manner.

I need to get all of my nervous/bad energy out. I want rattan to take that energy out of me and turn it into something else.

Chaotic maelstrom of force and pain. That is what I want right now.


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May. 25th, 2005 05:21 pm (UTC)
If you were in NYC...
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May. 25th, 2005 09:11 pm (UTC)
Can we take the Y out and you come to NC-

i am in the mood for blood :)
May. 25th, 2005 03:57 pm (UTC)
That reminds me - can we have a play date sometime? :)
May. 25th, 2005 05:21 pm (UTC)
Yes. :-)
May. 25th, 2005 04:13 pm (UTC)
I hope you find a release soon, even if for once I can't offer myself even in spirit. (I'd hate to get grumpy and have to punch you in the eye along with the rest of the world!) ;o)
May. 25th, 2005 04:34 pm (UTC)
I find this fascinating. I was recently talking to someone who said that I could beat him if I was stressed and needed to get it out ever. And I had to point out that when I'm stressed, that's the last thing I want to do.
May. 25th, 2005 04:55 pm (UTC)
The scene I have in mind would focus me onto the task at hand... and my partner. Thus taking all the bad energy I have stored up inside me and transforming it into a positive experience.
May. 25th, 2005 05:34 pm (UTC)
Yeah, that's pretty much *exactly* what I want right now, though from the bottom. Something to push me hard, hard .. taking all the bad out with every stroke.
May. 26th, 2005 12:25 am (UTC)
Yeah, that's pretty much *exactly* what I want right now, though from the bottom. Something to push me hard, hard .. taking all the bad out with every stroke.

I can so relate to this need. That's what I want/need once in a while, and you put it so perfectly.

May. 25th, 2005 05:05 pm (UTC)
You know I've never been caned?
May. 25th, 2005 05:07 pm (UTC)
How much do you like sting?

I find that many gay men haven't... it is not traditionally a gay male style of play. I see it much more often in the het/bi and women communities.
May. 25th, 2005 05:10 pm (UTC)
Frankly I am more a black and blue boy (no apologies to Gainesborough). I've seen some interesting canings, and have had a few of the videos on my desktop (but where oh fucking where have they gone?), and am interestedm but still teetering.
May. 25th, 2005 05:12 pm (UTC)
Well, if you ever want to lose your cherry, I'm game.
May. 25th, 2005 05:16 pm (UTC)
Hmm, well I already have a tentative playdate this Friday, and am working tonight with panicky MBA students. Thursday's schedule is quite, uh, complicated: two friends receive their PhDs and deafdyke and I are going to the conferment, I think having to listen to Bill Moyers speak is punishment enough for one day, and I think we're hanging around trying to glom an impromptu invite to someone's party.

Are you headed to IML this weekend or are you in town?
May. 25th, 2005 05:19 pm (UTC)
I am indeed Chicago bound.
May. 25th, 2005 05:23 pm (UTC)
Damn you!

I was looking for some kind of beating relatively soon (you may have read some of my posts last week on now defunct yahoo lists?), as I'd like the wounds to heal before I head to the hospital on the 16th.

When do you return?
May. 25th, 2005 05:40 pm (UTC)
I return on Monday... and I'm already due out of town the following weekend.
May. 25th, 2005 06:17 pm (UTC)
And I resume teaching on Thursday the 2nd. I have students booked for Tuesday the 31st in the evening, but right now both the 1st and the 2nd are free after 5pm
May. 25th, 2005 08:45 pm (UTC)
For me, on top or bottom, it is one of the most moving, absolutely emotionally-bare-laying SM acts I've ever been involved in. (Chalk up one for the gay-guys-and-canes team.)

As for liking sting: I in know way consider it something I "like" -- just something I do, and sometimes, must do.
May. 26th, 2005 03:46 am (UTC)
That's my experience, too... at least in the US. My limited experience with people from the British isle is that it's more common there. I've been caned by both a Mc and a Mac. My first was by Hugh Black, a crazy Scottsman. You should introduce more people. It's a fun art. :)

Well, 'liking sting' is always the question for pain scene. Liking the sting isn't the question. When I figure out what the question is, I'll let you know. (No, it's not 'what do you get when you multiply 6 by 9?') When you get through to the other side, though, the endorphin high is quite fun, and I often find myself somewhat malleable for a brief period afterwards.
May. 31st, 2005 06:16 am (UTC)
My first was by Hugh Black, a crazy Scottsman.

One of the craziest. In the best ways.
May. 31st, 2005 11:28 am (UTC)
I liked the way his face would light up when my thighs would tense after a strike. He was like a kid in a candy store.
May. 25th, 2005 05:19 pm (UTC)
Ahhh... the want for a cane when all life hands you is a crop.
May. 25th, 2005 05:20 pm (UTC)
And I absolutely despise crops.
May. 25th, 2005 05:22 pm (UTC)
See... I was taking notes. :)
May. 25th, 2005 06:02 pm (UTC)
Really? I didn't know that. Why?
May. 25th, 2005 06:55 pm (UTC)
Small, flimsy, never felt right in my hand. I hate the squarish leather bit you hit with. Inflexable handle...

It just all feels wrong in my hand.
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May. 31st, 2005 06:15 am (UTC)
You've never been given an Hermes crop for Christmas. :)
May. 25th, 2005 05:56 pm (UTC)
I can picture that. Aah, catharsis. I'm sorry this is coming from a negative place, and I hope you can get what you need.
May. 26th, 2005 12:50 am (UTC)

I'm going to be subjected to theraputic flogging tonight. (Courtesy of clayman).

Now, I don't generally do rattan, but if you were to show up here and want to give it a whack.... I guess I'd be up for it!

May. 26th, 2005 03:05 am (UTC)
yikes. *hugs* I hope things get better.
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