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I'm skipping the order of questions again. Because I can. So there. Neener neener.

(That last statement is completely attributable to the fact that my brain is running on fumes.)

I'm asked:

If I tell you that you feel safe to me, is that a bad thing? By safe it means you feel emotionally safe enough to me to consider having sex with you. You feel safe enough to me that I'd like to talk to you about me having sex/play with other men. I don't want to disrespect you or to use you in some icky fashion.
I know we've teased each other a bit and that you'd really like a crack at my ass so to speak. I like our teasing and flirting but I don't want to do anything to harm our friendship or hurt your feelings.
So even though you're raunchy and perverted, you feel safe to me. Is that ok with you?


This had to be one of the greatest compliments ever given me. You have touched me, humbled me, and made me blush. And that is just my initial reactions.

Yes, I am very much OK with this. I love how our relationship has progressed from acquaintances to friendship, and I am excited to turn the next corner and see what is there.

I want to hug you right now so much it hurts.

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desiringsubject
Mar. 10th, 2008 07:49 pm (UTC)
That is an awesome compliment. But it doesn't surprise me at all. about 8/10 times most people who come off with strong top energy put me right off. I frequently don't even want to become very good friends with them, much less play in more than a one-off fashion. And you pass through the world shot through with top-energy and yet you feel very safe.

I don't know whether it's been a talent or a skill, but you got it, hun.
;)
boymeat
Mar. 10th, 2008 09:26 pm (UTC)
You too! You're all conspiring to make me plotz today.
avahdi
Mar. 10th, 2008 09:33 pm (UTC)
Yes, I would heartily agree with the question asker that you feel safe.
coyotegoth
Mar. 11th, 2008 01:23 am (UTC)
That's a truly sweet message.
bostontim
Mar. 11th, 2008 03:38 pm (UTC)
Ditto....how else do you think you got my single-tail cherry (yes...despite the fact that someone else got my flogging cherry). In addition, hanging with you and your fellow travelers has helped me open myself up to more things...and the exploring has only begun.
HUGS!
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