March 5th, 2007

south park bloody phil

Guaranteed to make someone blush.

I just drank down a cup of coffee in record time. I will be refilling it immediately after I finish typing this post.

I'm bloody exhausted. After seeing Black Snake Moan for the 2nd time this weekend with lolitasir and high4tower (great movie, HAWT!, chains and chains and... did I mention HAWT!!!!) I wound up getting a killer headache. It kept me awake, until I fell half-asleep at 1:30 AM.

dahling came home at around 2 AM. And I woke up again.

She has apologized profusely... and probably will again later.

My take on the matter? SOOOOOOOO worth it.

I love my girl, I do I do.

OK. More coffee.
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The (Office) Cast of Characters

This is a post I've been meaning to write for a while.

My office is located on the cusp of the West Village and Soho in Manhattan, and is but a quarterback's throw to Tribeca. Due to that, I get to see a whole array of interesting characters while on my smoke breaks. Members of the "smokers club" downstairs often banter about these people, and I've gone as far to give them pet names. Here is just a selection of the fun people I get to see on a near daily basis.

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Who are the interesting characters around your workplace?
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More Questions. More Answers.

Here I give to you the 5th installment of questions. This time, I was asked 5 questions in a row. So, here we go:

5a) What's your biggest pet peeve about the leather community?

Right now, titles. There are just too many of them! What was once a lovely way to promote bars and give the stage to a few lucky winners has become a burdensome machine that is breaking down. There are too many on the national circuit, and the meanings behind them are beginning to get lost due to the sheer quantity of them.

5b) Favorite kinky website?

I suppose I should put in a vote for TES.org and NCSFreedom.org because they are two of my favorite groups. Aside from that, Leatherarchives.org. I love that there is actual content there, and it is one of my favorite institutions.

5c) CD/MP3/music you're listening to a lot this week?

Actually, none. I haven't been listening to much music lately except for background flavor. Just iTunes on random or Pandora.com

5d) We are alone in my dungeon for 4 hours. What one thing do you want me to do to you? {grin}

Hate to be blunt here, but I wouldn't want you to do anything. I don't know you at all, and I only play with people who I feel a strong connection to. I used to do the whole anonymous sex trip years upon years ago, and grew tired of it. Luckily, I escaped that period of my life unscathed, and now I am much more selective on who I play with.

That, and I bottom to VERY few people. Even less then I have fingers on my right hand (or my left... take your pick.) I am much more apt to top someone that I don't know well then bottom. If I don't know you, I'm not bottoming to you.

5e) Anne Rice. Good writer or hack?

I liked her early stuff. Not too crazy about her since she found Jesus. But I appreciated reading stories about vampires being the good guys... or at least the guys you rooted for. And the Beauty series was among my first SM jerk-off books.


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Question #6

It's time for another one.

#6) How did you get started teaching in the scene outside of our little corner of it?

Editor's note: By "our" I believe the question refers to TES.

Like most things that happened to me 10-11 years ago, I really don't remember! *laughing* Well, let's see if we can piece it together.

When I first came out to TES, one of the things that I was definitely sure of was my foot fetish. I guess I became known for it, and lolitasir pushed me to teach on the topic. Now, that must have been a year or two in to my being at TES... I think.

My class had lolitasir as a bottom, which was quite the hoot. It was the elementary version of today's foot torture class that I teach, and it went remarkably well for a 1st time out of the gate. Lolita was howling, Big Bruce and high4tower were holding her legs down so that she didn't kick me in the face... much fun.

Later I did another foot fetish gig, this time for the Dominant Men/submissive women SIG at TES. For this go-around I organized a panel discussion. flaggestate was on that panel, talking about his love of getting his boots done. Master Jim (talking about his love to get his feet massaged, and the shamanic elements therein) and Daddy David 1 (yes, there was a Daddy David at TES before sir_lone_wolf took up the mantle) talking about his love for uber-dirty soles.

After that, my next class must have been at Black Rose. I think it was BR98. I sat on a panel on being young in the scene - it was me, high4tower, pervgrrl  and... er... someone else. Shit, I need to pull out that program book - sorry to anyone I might have offended through my lack of memory. It went really well, and helped set the stage for the upcoming TNG revolution.

Now, where I went from there is all a blur. I know I kept teaching foot play, and somewhere along the line I picked up teaching flogging. I also found myself sitting on a lot of panels, about a myriad of topics. When not teaching, I was demo bottoming a whole lot - my first two years at TES found me almost exclusively bottoming.

I taught mostly at TES, and then a return to Black Rose was my first big event foray. I then extended a bit to NJ, up to Boston, and here I am today.

I owe it all to lolitasir. I thought she was absolutely out of her mind when she first had me teach at TES. I never believed for a second I had anything to offer. Just one of the myriad of things she helped create in me.

It's funny, at work, my boss once asked me how I learned to present so well. I told him he really didn't want to hear the answer to that question.

March is Question Me On Anything Month. You too can ask me a question here.
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