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And... ladies and gentleman, let's give a warm welcome to the return of the one, the only, the famous... the Phil cryptic post!!! (yaaaaayyy!)

It really hit me this morning as to no matter what the situation, how things and/or people stay the same.

People just don't change.

Relationships and connections don't change.

The same struggles, passions, confusion, wonderment... all stay the same.

I know a whole lot of things have stayed the same for me. Things that won't go away.

Sometimes, this is an amazing thing, and I'm happy to find the continuence of something I like. Other times, it is a living hell.

Fun stuff.

Edit - please note, I'm fine! Just making idle observations about my life. That is all. No need to worry.

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boymeat
Oct. 11th, 2005 02:52 pm (UTC)
Paranoia is no fun. Relax, and check your e-mail.
cleovale
Oct. 11th, 2005 02:32 pm (UTC)
thats one of those blessing/curse situations.

Sometimes, no matter how you hope or work for it.. some things/people will never change, and it challenges you or your relationships.. sometimes even ends them.

But sometimes, people will never change, which means they will be there and love you and stand by you...always...and there is the joy.

redhead_sue
Oct. 11th, 2005 02:36 pm (UTC)
Hmm... this is true of some people. And some relationships. But I've seen some people change, a lot. And I know that I've changed a lot in the last couple of years, and my changes have changed how I interact with some people. It just depends on the person and the relationship, I suppose.
luna_littleone
Oct. 11th, 2005 02:54 pm (UTC)
*big squishy woo woo hugs*

because anything I say will come out wrong. *chuckle*


violaleeblues
Oct. 11th, 2005 03:21 pm (UTC)
Actually, people DO change ...

Everything changes.

boymeat
Oct. 11th, 2005 03:30 pm (UTC)
I find their overriding personalities tend to stay the same. Deep emotional bonds never seem to go away.

Generalities, yes. But, my experience as of late.
brehen
Oct. 11th, 2005 03:57 pm (UTC)
*Love you...*that will never change...*
njlexi
Oct. 11th, 2005 04:15 pm (UTC)
Yes, it is rare when people's "core components" change. It does happen, but very rarely.

There's nothing worse than realizing that a connection leads to negative feelings. Usually this does lessen, but not always. Here's hoping that in your life the good things about this kind of stability outweighs the bad. *hugs*
alanesq
Oct. 11th, 2005 05:51 pm (UTC)
Definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.
boymeat
Oct. 11th, 2005 05:57 pm (UTC)
Ha ha! I'm certifiable!

*they're coming to take me away! ha ha hee hee...*
lolitasir
Oct. 11th, 2005 08:03 pm (UTC)
You are an enabler.
kkkkkkkkat
Oct. 11th, 2005 09:29 pm (UTC)
*I* am an enabler too! Want to form a club?
boymeat
Oct. 11th, 2005 09:37 pm (UTC)
Oh Kat, if you only KNEW the irony laden in this comment. *laughing*

We most certainly should form a club!
kkkkkkkkat
Oct. 12th, 2005 12:58 pm (UTC)
Tell me the irony!
boymeat
Oct. 11th, 2005 09:37 pm (UTC)
Guilty as charged.
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