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A mini-rant.

Here is a little rant about perception. About how others perceive us, and create clues for behavior where there actually are none.

Or... maybe it is a rant about identity. Self-identity versus perceived. Cultural norms vs. preferred treatment?

Jeez, I dunno. There are a whole lot of things I can attach to this little mini-rant.

But with all the pomp extracted, it all comes down to this - I wish people would spell my name right.

Boymeat. One word. Capital B.

Just because there is "Boy" in the name, doesn't make me submissive. And even if I did make that my primary identity,  I do not  subscribe to your system of "all submissive people must have their names printing in lower-case letters." Your assumption on that front offends me.

My identity is my identity. Stop trying to adopt it to your own comfort levels. Capital B. One word.

Thank you.


Oct. 30th, 2007 04:59 pm (UTC)
Well, pretty much anything below the ass is okay. The ass is "okay" too, for some values of okay. That would be the "you have to take me to breaking", or you'll have a rabid dog on your hands when I'm released.

Never really done anything beyond thuddy punching on chest... though I did have nasty bruising on my biceps from a rubber rod post-inferno.
Oct. 30th, 2007 05:14 pm (UTC)
Define breaking.

Just as aside, this is the most negotiation I have done in years.
Oct. 30th, 2007 05:22 pm (UTC)
Really, beyond the "don't hit the back", this is just chat... that's the only hard limit. I know you've got skillz. :)

And by breaking? Well, sobbing, heaving mass of flesh whose ability and drive to reject, resist or otherwise cope with the pain has been stripped away, leaving a bare emotional nerve that's rather malleable.
Oct. 30th, 2007 11:48 pm (UTC)
I imagine English strokes could put us in the right direction...